Menurutnya, meskipun setiap ibu memiliki cara asuh berbeda, namun Andien percaya bahwa setiap ibu memiliki keinginan agar anaknya sehat, pintar, mandiri, dan bahagia.
"To all mothers.. With this message, I call on all mothers to get together.
Know that mother is never alone.
You always have support from other moms.
I believe all mums want their childern to be healthy, smart, independent and happy.
I also believe we all have one common resource, that is, LOVE.
Every familly might have its own approach but they all share common goal.
So mum, if one mother has a different approach than another, it doesn't mean that she's wrong, you neither.
There's really no right or wrong in motherhood. Each approach has its own reasoning. And it is just as personal as one's faith.
Today I read Time and found that there is phenomenon known as a 'mum-shaming'.
This negative trend will not only cause hatred but it also can be phychically harmfull to both accuser and the accused mum.
Motherhood is supposed to be a positive and precious role for women. Unfortunately, because of this spite, most are in danger of losing the essence of it.