Dinyinyiri Netizen karena Sering Menyimpang Dalam Perawatan Bayi, ini Jawaban Mengejutkan Andien Aisyah

Nakita.id - Pola perawatan dan pengasuhan baby Kawa, anak dari penyanyi Andien Aisyah memang antimainstream, cenderung berbeda dengan  ibu-ibu kebanyakan, sehingga mengundang nyinyiran. 

Sebut saja sikapnya yang memberi bayinya makanan padat, padahal usianya baru 5 bulan. 

Padahal sesuai dengan rekomendasi WHO dan IDAI (Ikatan Dokter Anak Indonesia), bayi baru boleh diberi makanan padat bila usianya sudah mencapai 6 bulan. 

Itu pun dilakukan dengan bertahap, dimulai dengan tekstur lumat (cair), kasar, lembut, hingga makanan padat seperti makanan keluarga. 

Tapi Andien tidak, ia langsung memberikan makanan padat lembut pada anaknya yang baru berusia 5 bulan. 

Selain itu, Andien juga saat bepergian ke luar rumah, ia selalu menggendong si kecil tanpa alat bantu seperti stroller. 

Baru-baru ini,  kebiasaan yang dianggap netizen melabrak aturan dan nyeleneh adalah ia terlihat tidak sering mengganti pakaian anaknya. 

Yang mengejutkan, Andien menanggapi hal itu dengan santai. 

Rabu (23/11) malam, Andien mengunggah sebuah pesan cinta dalam akun instagramnya, @andienaisyah.

Dalam pesan tersebut, penyanyi ini mengajak para ibu untuk tidak malu jika mengalami hal yang sama dengan dirinya. 

Menurutnya, meskipun setiap ibu memiliki cara asuh berbeda, namun Andien percaya bahwa setiap ibu memiliki keinginan agar anaknya sehat, pintar, mandiri, dan bahagia. 

"To all mothers.. With this message, I call on all mothers to get together.

Know that mother is never alone.

You always have support from other moms.

I believe all mums want their childern to be healthy, smart, independent and happy.

I also believe we all have one common resource, that is, LOVE. 

Every familly might have its own approach but they all share common goal.

So mum, if one mother has a different approach than another, it doesn't mean that she's wrong, you neither.

There's really no right or wrong in motherhood. Each approach has its own reasoning. And it is just as personal as one's faith.

Today I read Time and found that there is phenomenon known as a 'mum-shaming'.

This negative trend will not only cause hatred but it also can be phychically harmfull to both accuser and the accused mum. 

Motherhood is supposed to be a positive and precious role for women. Unfortunately, because of this spite, most are in danger of losing the essence of it. 

What every mum needs is support and empowerment.

An empowered mother creates wholesome,  morally responsible childern.

Don't all of us wish the next generation to be a generation worthy of chane and progress? Let's show a good example and be responsible, respectful and empowered mums. Spread the love. ???" 

 

To all mothers.. With this message, I call on all mothers to get together. Know that a mother is never alone. You always have support from other mums. I believe all mums want their children to be healthy, smart, independent and happy. I also believe we all have one common resource, that is, LOVE. - Every family might have its own approach but they all share a common goal. So mum, if one mother has a different approach than another, it doesn’t mean that she’s wrong, you neither. There’s really no right or wrong in motherhood. Each approach has its own reasoning. And it is just as personal as one’s faith. - Today I read Time and found that there is a phenomenon known as a "mum-shaming”. This negative trend will not only cause hatred but it also can be psychically harmful to both the accuser and the accused mum. Motherhood is supposed to be a positive and precious role for women. Unfortunately because of this spite, most are in danger of losing the essence of it. - What every mum needs is support and empowerment. An empowered mother creates wholesome, morally responsible children. Don’t all of us wish the next generation to be a generation worthy of change and progress? Let’s show a good example and be responsible, respectful and empowered mums. Spread the love ??????????

A post shared by Andien Aisyah (@andienaisyah) on Nov 22, 2017 at 5:28am PST

Banyak netizen yang menanggapi positif pesan cinta Andien, bahkan menguatkan netizen.

"Caption nya menyentuh sekali ibuuu ???????????? setiap ibu berhak untuk dihargai apapun keadaannya." @nikencantya

"Love you ibuk ? thank you for your information, so inspiring me" @firdanifajri

"Mba andien terima kasih, ini menguatkan," @ayucikiciw 

Meski mendapatkan dukungan netizen, para ibu sebaiknya kritis saat memberi perawatan dan pengasuhan si kecil. 

Jangan sampai ikut-ikutan karena sedang trend atau karena ada artis yang melakukannya. 

Pastikan Mama memperkaya wawasan, bahkan bila perlu berkonsultasi dengan dokter anak untuk melakukan perawatan terbaik si kecil 

(Laporan : Fadhila Afifah dan Fadhila Auliya Widiaputri) 

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